In the wake of the sudden and heartbreaking loss of her husband, Trevor Magallanes, actress and comedienne Rufa Mae Quinto has turned to social media—not to grieve publicly, but to make a heartfelt appeal for understanding, sensitivity, and respect.

“Maraming salamat sa lahat ng nagpadala ng mensahe ng pakikiramay,” Rufa wrote, extending her gratitude to those who offered condolences. But alongside her appreciation was a plea—one made not only as a public figure, but as a wife and mother struggling through a deeply personal tragedy.

“As we cautiously navigate through this emotionally difficult period in our lives, we would appreciate discretion from everyone,” she wrote. “Nakikiusap ako na huwag naman po ninyong gamitin ang pangyayaring ito para magkaroon lamang kayo ng ‘content.’”

Her message was clear: In an age where virality often trumps veracity, Rufa is urging the public to avoid speculation and misinformation, especially in light of the emotional toll such content could take on her young daughter, Athena.

“For the sake of our daughter, Athena, please refrain from spreading unverified information that she can access through social media,” she said. “Let us just remember the good times that we had with my husband, Trev.”

Married in 2016 and blessed with a daughter in 2017, Rufa and Trev shared a life away from the spotlight, especially after relocating to the United States. Despite her career in comedy, Rufa’s post reveals a woman in mourning, asking for dignity amid her loss.