Eight Filipino CHRISTMAS customs for a kinder, more meaningful celebration

For many Filipinos, this is the most wonderful season of all! The air gets a little crisper, the lights shine a bit brighter, and there’s a palpable warmth in the hearts of Filipinos everywhere. It’s a time when we put our best smiles forward, practice kindness and prepare for the joy of giving and receiving. In a season filled with love and togetherness, holiday traditions take center stage, and this writer had the privilege of speaking with over 30 people who shared the festive customs they hold dear.

So, as holiday spirit fills the air, why not settle in with a steaming cup of hot chocolate and a sweet treat? You just might find yourself nodding along, relating to and reliving some of these heartfelt traditions.

Setting up decorations as early as September

Christmas trees, shimmering balls and festive wreaths — these are just a few of the decorations that grace Filipino homes as early as September. When the “-ber” months roll around, the holiday spirit officially kicks off, and it’s time to dust off the decorations, tune in to Jose Mari Chan’s timeless Christmas tunes, and let the festivities begin!

For many, including over 10 people interviewed, decorating the home is a beloved family tradition. It’s not about having the most elaborate setup but sharing those moments with loved ones. Whether hanging up the first parol or setting up a modest tree, the joy comes from coming together to transform the home into a Christmas wonderland of their own.

Christmas shopping

From 9.9, 10.10, 11.11 and 12.12 sales to the frenzy of Black Friday, Christmas shopping starts way before the holidays for Filipinos. With long lists of family members and friends to shop for, it’s all about getting ahead of the game.

Begin planning early, scouring online sales or hitting the malls for that perfect gift, all while keeping an eye on the budget. A little tip? The best presents are those the recipient wouldn’t have bought for themselves, or perhaps a gift that ties into a shared memory. It’s the thought behind the gift that truly matters.

‘Simbang Gabi’

This is a Christmas tradition that runs from 16 to 24 December. It’s a nine-day series of dawn or evening Masses, and there’s a little gossip floating around that completing the entire series grants a Christmas wish from Above. But beyond the rumor, the heart of Simbang Gabi is its significance in honoring the birth of Jesus. Many of those I spoke to said it’s a cherished spiritual practice that deepens their faith and is even more meaningful when attended with family. Afterward, there’s always the joy of sharing a hearty late-night snack or breakfast and making memories together, making it a beautiful way to start the day.

Christmas caroling

One of my favorite childhood memories was Christmas caroling with cousins and friends; judging by the responses I received, I was not alone. From singing classic English carols to Filipino jingles and even belting out Mariah Carey hits, this tradition remains a holiday highlight.

Exchange gifts

Exchange gifts are a staple of every Filipino Christmas, and many of those I interviewed eagerly look forward to this tradition. Personally, I take part in exchange gifts every year, so I can truly feel the excitement they share. Whether the budget is P200, P500, or P1,000, the joy doesn’t lie in the price tag but in the thoughtfulness behind the gift. It’s thrilling to receive something you’ve secretly wished for or maybe even something unexpected — a little surprise that shows how well your loved ones know you or a fun last-minute gift that makes you laugh.

‘Puto bumbong’

Two words: long lines. From September onwards, people are already on the lookout for the return of this beloved treat. Puto bumbong, the purple rice cake served during the Christmas season, has fans lining up outside stalls from Espana to Taft. Social media, especially X (formerly Twitter) and TikTok, has become a hub for sharing the best spots to grab this delicacy, and for a good reason — it’s a tradition many Filipinos look forward to every holiday season. For me, it’s just not Christmas without a steaming serving of puto bumbong to kick off the celebrations.

Christmas parties

Ah, Christmas parties —the chance to dress up, wear something new, and celebrate with family, friends, or even colleagues. Whether it’s a casual get-together or an office party, I love the energy and excitement that come with it. I remember the joy of preparing for class Christmas parties as a child, and many of the people I interviewed shared similar feelings, though they might not lose sleep in anticipation the way I used to! Still, there’s something special about those parties — whether it’s the laughter, the music, or the exchange of gifts, they capture the essence of Christmas cheer.

Giving back to others

Save the best for last — this one is what truly embodies the spirit of Christmas. Several people I spoke with reminded me that Christmas is about giving back, especially to those who are less fortunate.