She is 13 years old. She sleeps most of the time. Prefers to be hand-fed. Stills poops and pees regularly (a sign of health, so they say).

My mornings have changed. I get up at the break of dawn to give her meds and to check on her.

We look at each other, she with her puppy eyes and me with my sleepy eyes.

A look of love.

Vodka, our Bichon Frise has lived longer than a doggy of her breed normally does — I have no complaints only looks of love.

She is not my first senior dog — I have lived with many — and lost too many, too.

“When do you know it is time?” I am often asked. “They will tell you” is my quick reply.

A dog is generally considered a senior around the age of seven, but this can vary based on breed and size. Smaller breeds like Vodka) tend to live longer and may be considered seniors around 10 to 12 years old, while larger breeds may reach senior status as early as five to seven years old.

As dogs age, they may experience a variety of physical and behavioral changes, including decreased activity levels, weight loss, vision and hearing loss and an increased susceptibility to certain health issues, a vet once told me.

What do I do to keep from breaking down? I prepare myself by preparing Vodka.

Her overall health is okay — for her age. I have a vet come and see her if I sense she is in pain. But so far, all has been good.

Yes, she has reduced activity levels. As a senior dog, she sleeps more, has less energy, and shows decreased interest in exercise. She has lost a bit of weight. And yes, she does not see too good and we have to call her more than once to get her attention.

Some days, she stares into space as if lost in a time and place.  

Confusion and disorientation? She may forget commands, get lost in familiar places, or have accidents indoors. She just watches at Boris and Alex (the Schnauzers), but does not show any interest in playing with them.

But at the end of the day, it is really all about caring for her.  An adjusted diet — her faves are what I feed her.

Did I tell you she has a new bed and is always comfy?

For her gentle exercise, I make sure she takes a trip or two out doors to pee. She also nudges me when she wants to go out.

At the end of the day, it is patience and understanding that keeps this lola watching out for lola Vodka. I know that being patient and understanding with your senior dog as they adjust to the changes of old age is what keeps them happy — at least I hope so.