Alfonso Santos: My ‘why’ is to be happy

Alfonso Santos: I started when I was four years old. My family would go to the golf course about once a year, and that was how I was introduced to the game.

What made you fall in love with golf?

I liked seeing myself improve. When my drives became straighter or I started making more putts, it gave me a sense of accomplishment. I also enjoyed meeting new people through golf.

But loving golf is always going to be, “I want to quit” and “I hate this game.” At the end of the day, though, we all come back to it.

Who influenced you the most when you were starting out?

My dad played a big role. Even when I was struggling or hitting too many balls into the water, he would bring me back and encourage me to improve.

One of my favorite memories was finally beating him. Instead of getting angry, he was happy for me. He saw me becoming a better golfer and, in a way, another competitor and playing partner.

What has been your proudest achievement in golf?

Breaking 80 at Alabang Country Club. I had been training for about two years, and I finally did it while playing with my twin brother, Andres.

It was a big moment because I could see how much I had improved.

What is the most difficult part of being a student-athlete?

Finding the right balance. If I have a tournament but also have a test the following week, I have to decide based on my priorities.

Golf teaches you to manage your time and your responsibilities while still making sure you are mentally and physically prepared.

What has golf taught you about dealing with failure?

Golf is full of ups and downs. You have to accept that you are going to make mistakes.

There are no mulligans or re-hits in a tournament. Once you make a mistake, you have to accept it, learn from it and figure out how to improve instead of staying frustrated.

Who is your biggest inspiration?

My twin brother, Andres Emilio Muñoz Santos — my annoying twin brother.

He is also my best friend. We challenge each other all the time, whether it is practicing or competing.

I really want to beat him.

How important is your family to your golf?

Family is everything to me. My entire family plays golf, and they have always supported me.

My mother, especially, has allowed me to compete and continue playing. My family gives me the motivation to smile, stay confident and keep going when things get difficult.

What do you tell yourself before a round?

“The first shot is only the beginning. Start off with confidence.”

That helps me avoid putting too much pressure on myself before the round. I try to control my emotions and focus on the shot in front of me.

What is your biggest golf dream?

I want to become club champion at Alabang Country Club.

My grandfather, Cesar Muñoz, was a club champion, and I would love to see my name beside his on the wall of champions.

He also taught me to stay humble and focused. Whenever I complained about things like strong winds or thick grass, he would remind me to keep my composure.

What is your ‘why’ for playing golf?

My why for playing golf is to be happy.

Golf gives me lessons about life, friendships and opportunities to challenge myself. It shows me that I can face difficult situations and come out stronger.

For me, it is not just about shooting lower scores. It is about continuing to improve, staying grounded and enjoying the journey.

What are some of your favorites?

My favorite course is The Country Club, my favorite golfer is Sean Ramos, and my favorite club is my 60-degree wedge. I would love to play Pebble Beach someday.

Before rounds, I enjoy my girlfriend’s cookies. My game is unpredictable, and outside golf I enjoy basketball and cooking.