Thoughts on Eid’l Adha

Thoughts on Eid’l Adha | Daily Tribune

Neither the usual nor the vivid, community-centered celebration familiar to many Filipino Muslims; not marked by grand rituals and elaborate gatherings — this is how our family observes Eid’l Adha.

As the son of a Maranao Muslim father deeply anchored in his traditions and a Catholic-born mother who later embraced Islam, our celebration is a quiet, private moment of subdued allegiance, respite, and gentle memory.

Eid’l Adha or Festival of Sacrifice honors the great sacrifice made by Prophet Ibrahim’s willingness to submit his own son to Allah. As he was ready to kill his son, Allah stopped him and presented a lamb for sacrifice instead. This represents utmost trust, deep faith and generosity for Muslims.

In our family, though, the observance was subdued and focused on the underlying meaning of supreme sacrifice.

Strongly remembering those early years, we had no extravagant feasts or home-based ceremonies. Usually, our father would be silently contemplating on his faith and imparting lessons on trust and submission to us. Later on, my mother valued and maintained these customs with subdued respect so that my siblings and I would know their importance free from undue pressure from strict expectations.

Though different, for us this understated observance was important. Our family’s Eid’l Adha became a personal reminder of life’s quiet sacrifices — the daily decisions and little moments when we place trust in something greater than ourselves, instead of stressing outward manifestations of faith.

Fast forward to my adult life, including my years of government service. I have carried on these quiet reflections on sacrifice. It has become second nature to me that real leadership and true service are based on quiet consistency, humility, and firmly rooted values; that sincerity comes before show. In silence, Eid’l Adha keeps me in constant awareness of the great responsibility assigned to those in leadership.

Fascinatingly, over time I realized how different my family’s modest approach was from the customary celebrations. Having seen friends’ happy celebrations or attended community events, I saw that our family’s quiet celebration was not less — it was simply different. It matched our reality, our situation, and maybe our personalities, complementing our complex view of faith.

Further, this quiet devotion helped me to develop empathy. I realized that many Filipino Muslims — especially those living in non-predominantly Muslim neighborhoods — may quietly, perhaps invisibly, follow religious traditions privately. In a nation of diverse faiths and culture, understated practices deserve respect and appreciation. I know of some relatives who prepare year round, rearranging schedules, and saving up to visit family back home.

Today, as we celebrate Eid’l Adha, our family’s modest observance makes me proud and comforts me, helping me to be humble and reminding me that often great lessons are taught gently, quietly, and persistently.

This article may also encourage you to gently consider your own sacrifices and the subtle but significant ways you respect and observe your values as it reaches you on the very day of Eid. After all, Eid’l Adha speaks to the sincerity in the heart and the quiet but strong dedication everyone of us makes on our individual paths.

Eid’l Adha, for me, will remain to be a day of gentle remembrance — a quiet reaffirmation of the strength found in subtle devotion, patient sacrifice, and heartfelt reflection.

Eid Mubarak.