Thanksgiving is a time to convey gratitude for everything we have been blessed with, despite the many incessant challenges and trying times that have resulted in loss of lives, property, and livelihood.

My American husband Glenn and I have been consistently celebrating this tradition for 44 years and counting — pandemic or no pandemic — when we open our home to family and friends who wish to uphold the spirit of appreciation in this time-honored heritage every fourth Thursday of November.

As in past Thanksgiving dinners, our table was filled with customary fare for the season, including turkey, ham, trimmings, mashed potatoes au gratin, cranberry sauce, and pumpkin pie, among many others, with season-fitting décor such as autumn leaves, carved pumpkins, and other produce.

The highlight of the evening was the Candle Ceremony, when my husband Glenn shared some meaningful insights on the significance of this ritual that is relevant in various facets of human life. A number of guests lighted up a small candle from a large central one and placed it along a wreath.

Our only child Eduard lighted the candle of life, which celebrates not only human life, but also the lives of the plants and animals that give us, humans, nourishment in this world.

Isabel Velasco, a cancer survivor, kindled a candle for the miraculous healing of our bodies, minds, spirits, and the lifting of our social and emotional burdens.

Our nephew Paco illuminated the candle of courage — to get up each morning and face the coming events, and to muster the bravery to accept our sorrows and the valor to face challenges.

Honorary Consul of Canada Katherine Rivera offered the candle of love for family and friends, the environment, and the whole of creation.

Our eldest sibling Edu burned the wick for memories which we continue to share and reminisce with family and friends, while keeping in mind the times we shared with those who have passed on.

Mayen Tan lit the candle of gratefulness for the unique journey we each travel and thankful for the individual experience of existence.

Lastly, I ignited the candle of hope to keep us moving forward and allow us to embrace the future positively and to see opportunity in upcoming challenges.
Let's all be grateful. Give thanks.