Work instead of ayuda
Besides environmental and cultural preservation, the Villar family continues their livelihood projects whether they are in or out of politics. Senator Cynthia had seniors officially verified and gives their names to the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) for ayuda (allowances) — but they are only entitled to such if they participate in community events like Zumba for Women’s Month.
“Sa Las Piñas, dapat walang mahirap kasi may opportunities. Ang mayroon, tamad. Ang gusto nila ayuda. Eh ako hindi ako sanay sa ayuda. Sanay akong nagtratrabaho. Saka mas permanent ang trabaho (In Las Piñas, there should be no poverty because there are opportunities. What’s there are lazy people. All they want are freebies. I’m not used to freebies because I grew up working. Also, work is more permanent),” she explained.
Before becoming the country’s richest man, Senator Manny held several odd jobs in his youth to support his education and poor family in Tondo.
“Nagkargador pa ‘yan (He even worked as heavy load carrier),” Senator Cynthia said of her husband.
As such, the couple makes sure everything they built, their children know how to rebuild from scratch.
“Mga simple lang sila. Tuwang-tuwa nga ako sa kanila eh, kasi nagmana lang din sa amin. Palagay ko kasi ang mga anak, ginagaya lang din ang mga magulang. ‘Pag loko ang magulang, loko din ang mga anak. ‘Pag matino ang magulang, du’n mahihiya ang mga bata na gumawa ng kalokohan (They’re also simple like us. I’m very fond of them, they’re like us. I think it’s because the children, they just imitate their parents. If the parents are hooligans, the children are, too. But if the parents are good, the kids would be ashamed to do something bad),” Senator Cynthia said of her children.
From gravel and sand, to Camella Homes, the Villar estate grew bigger because every time they earn, the Villar couple makes sure to reinvest their profits back into their business — a virtue that the couple learned from Senator Cynthia’s mom, and which the former senators are also passing on to their children, Paolo, Mark and Camille.
“Kaya naman kami mayaman because of our land holdings. Pero ‘yung land holdings naman namin, naipon namin kasi noong araw, mura lang ang lupa. Eh lahat ng earnings ng kumpanya namin, ibinibili ni Manny ng lupa. Eh kami naman ni Manny, simple lang eh. Hindi kami maluho. Ang gastos lang namin pulitika, eh (We are rich because of our land holdings. But our land holdings accumulated because then, land was very inexpensive. Then all of our company’s earnings, Manny would use to buy more land. Because Manny and I are just simple. We’re not excessive. Our only expenses are politics),” Senator Cynthia narrated.
“Nasanay kami, kasi ang nanay ko, parating sinasabi sa akin, ‘Magnegosyo kayo, pero ‘pag nag-negosyo kayo, iipunin n’yo kita ninyo kasi hindi kayo parating kikita. Kung hindi ninyo inipon, kapag nalugi negosyo, kawawa kayo’ (We’ve become used to it because as my mom always used to say, ‘Engage in business, but if you do, save your earnings because you’d not always have earnings. If you’d not save and you become bankrupt, you’re doomed).”
Her parents, for example, used to earn P1,000 per month then, and from this, apportioned P200 to P300 to buy land.
“Kaya nu’ng kami ay pamamanahan, wala namang pera, puro lupa. Eh ako ayoko na rin ng lupa, ang hirap alagaan! Kahit na may guwardiya. Minsan ‘yung guwardiya pa ang magpupuno ng illegal settlers (That’s why when my parents gave us our inheritance, there was no money, only land. I don’t want land anymore, it’s hard to maintain! Even if there’s security. Sometimes, it’s even the security who would fill the land with illegal settlers).”
Instead of land, for Senator Cynthia, education is the best inheritance they could pass on to their children. They didn’t want them to grow up like other rich kids who didn’t want to work and just rely on their parents’ money. That is why the Villar couple worked hard to also give their kids the best education.
“Kasi kapag ipinamana mo pera at hindi education, kapag naloko, ubos din lahat ‘yun (Because if you give them money as inheritance and not education, if they get swindled, they’d also lose all their money),” the senator explained.
Likewise, instead of money, the couple are more concerned about passing on their faith in God and advocacies to their children.
“Puro kami lupa, wala kaming cash… Hindi kami ma-cash. Malupa kami. At saka ang lupa namin, hindi namin inagaw, binili namin. Ba’t kami mang-aagaw? Ang business lang namin gravel and sand, pero nakarating kami dito, ‘di ba tinulungan din kami ng Diyos? (We have land, we don’t have cash… We’re not into cash. We’re more into land. Also, our land, we didn’t land-grab them, we bought them. Why would we land-grab? Our business was only gravel and sand, but we reached this point, isn’t because God also helped us?),” Senator Cynthia pointed out.
The secret to their success, Senator Cynthia revealed, is regularly setting aside 10 percent of their income as tithes for the church. As the Bible says in the book of Malachi (3:10), blessings are promised for bringing the “whole tithe,” while Leviticus 27:30 provides grounding for tithing: “A tenth... is the Lord’s” — focusing on honoring God through intentional and cheerful giving.
During the Niño de Tondo Festival, the family stays at their Tondo home, the site of Senator Manny’s former rented house, which was demolished in Tondo. He was contacted to see if he wanted to buy the land, and ever since acquiring it, he has hosted barangay chairpersons and public school principals in Manila as a way of giving back and looking back on his humble roots as a poor boy in Tondo.
“Ang lagay, tinulungan ka na ng Diyos para maging successful, nanakawan mo pa ‘yung mga mahihirap? Baka naman malasin ka na sa buhay n’yan (If God already helped you to become successful, should you go stealing even from the poor? You might meet misfortune if you do that),” Senator Cynthia enthused.
Indeed, for the Villar family, everything starts and ends with the Lord — after all, we’ll not be here if not for God’s sipag and tiyaga.