Solo and thriving: Top spots for singles this love month

During Valentine month, one might ask, “What about us, single folks?”

Believe it or not, Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples.

Love is universal — it’s about cherishing yourself and putting yourself out there for the world to see just how amazing you are. Whether you’re embracing self-love or opening yourself to new connections, here are some fantastic places for singles to enjoy, connect with themselves or with friends, and explore.

Join an ‘all-singles hike’

Combine fitness, nature, and the chance to meet new people. Consider joining a hike organized by a trusted hiking group. Many groups, particularly on platforms like Facebook, regularly host hikes for all skill levels, whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned trekker.

What makes these events special is that some hikes cater exclusively to singles, often called “All-Singles Events.” These are great opportunities to meet like-minded individuals while enjoying the scenic beauty of the outdoors.

With logistics handled — from transportation to meals and accommodations — you only need to focus on conquering the trail and making new friends. Just ensure the organization is reputable and don’t hesitate to ask questions beforehand.

Fall in love with Siargao

If hiking isn’t your thing, how about a relaxing beach getaway? Siargao, the Philippines’ surfing capital, offers the perfect escape for singles looking for adventure, serenity, or even international romance.

Known for its stunning beaches and vibrant nightlife, Siargao has become a melting pot of cultures, attracting travelers and digital nomads from all over the world. The island’s natural beauty and laid-back lifestyle make it the ideal destination for those seeking meaningful connections — or simply a weekend of pure bliss. Whether you’re surfing, mingling in lively bars, or sipping fresh coconut juice by the shore, Siargao has something magical to offer every single soul.

Catch a film at Cine Adarna

If you’d prefer to stay within Metro Manila, why not visit the UP Film Center’s Cine Adarna? Located in the University of the Philippines Diliman campus, Cine Adarna is an 800-seat cinema that showcases high-quality, uncensored films.

The best part? Many screenings are free and operate on a first-come, first-served basis. The theater also regularly features international films, with ticket prices ranging from just P150 to P200. It’s a fantastic place to enjoy thought-provoking cinema while soaking in the artistic and intellectual vibe of the university.

Sip and socialize at The Curator

Looking for a cozy yet stylish spot to unwind? The Curator Coffee & Cocktails in Legazpi Village, Makati, has you covered. Ranked #33 in Asia’s 50 Best Bars, this dual-purpose gem serves artisanal coffee during the day and exquisite cocktails at night.

The space is intimate and inviting, with a constantly changing menu that reflects the times and caters to your cravings. Whether you’re sipping on a latte at the front café or indulging in a perfectly crafted cocktail at the hidden bar in the back, The Curator promises a memorable experience for singles looking to enjoy good company — or just good drinks.

Indulge in wellness at I’M Onsen Spa

For those seeking tranquility and self-care, why not spend a day at an onsen? Traditionally, onsens are Japanese hot springs known for their healing and relaxation benefits. Over time, they’ve evolved into spaces for wellness and socializing.

Located in the heart of Makati, I’M Onsen Spa offers a complete relaxation experience. As the Philippines’ first sento-style bathhouse, it combines traditional onsen treatments with modern spa amenities. Their packages range from soothing massages to all-inclusive treatments that end with a delightful buffet dinner. It’s the perfect place to rejuvenate your mind, body, and soul while pampering yourself with some much-needed “me time.”

Celebrate yourself this season

Who says Valentine’s Day is only for couples? The world is full of opportunities to explore, connect, and celebrate yourself. Whether you’re scaling mountains, soaking in an onsen, or sipping cocktails in the city, these places offer something special for singles to enjoy and embrace their independence. So go ahead, treat yourself to an adventure or a moment of serenity — you deserve it.