According to Saint Paul, in his letter to the Romans, “welcome one another, just as Christ welcomed you, to the glory of God.” Some say that the union of two people or the longevity of a relationship lies in their acceptance of each other.
And I agree that accepting another person, whether as a partner in life, in business, or in any other way, is the key to a good and long-lasting relationship. Besides love, respect, honesty, no lying or keeping secrets, being “open,” no inhibitions, and above all, accepting each other are things that strengthen human relationships.
Lovers or life partners need to have an open mind in order to understand, comprehend, and enlighten each other. Couples should not compete with each other but rather should complement each other.
Perhaps, we can learn a lesson from the love of Kuya Jojo and Ate Marichu for each other, which has lasted for 23 years and continues to demonstrate the goodness of God. Their union as husband and wife, which will be sealed as they exchange their wedding vows on 14 February, gives praise to God.
That should be the standard of two people who love each other, that their actions, plans, and accomplishments in their lives will bring praise to God.
Misunderstandings, discussions, or any other issues between two people in love are normal, but they should not lead to separation. And as much as possible, all problems or issues should be discussed properly, not making the situation uncomfortable for both but rather making things clear, fixing things in order, and avoiding persons or occasions that could offend your partner.
Everything can be resolved through proper and good conversation. That’s why constant communication between two people in love is important so that whatever you hear from other people, whether family members, relatives, friends, or acquaintances, you shouldn’t just believe it.
Love is truly a mystery. I know a young lady who was only 25 years old and the man was 57 years old, but that didn’t stop them from falling in love with each other. Even their circumstances or state in life did not become an obstacle to their love. Despite the opposition of some, such as a colleague of the man who even tried to court the woman, they were unsuccessful, and instead the two became even stronger and more steadfast in their love.
The girl’s family accepted the situation, even though the man was older than the girl’s parents.
The girl and the man accept each other, their weaknesses, their attitudes, each other’s passions, and support each other in their jobs and activities, even their dreams in life.
May we learn from the above stories and continue our interpersonal relationships under the guidance of God.
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