OPINION

Teach kids about money before social media does

Money problems rarely come from ignorance, they come from silence.

Chinkee Tan

We live in a world where kids learn faster than ever, but not always from the right sources. Before you even finish this sentence, your child could be scrolling through a video telling them how to “get rich quick.”

The truth is if parents don’t teach their kids about money, social media will. Financial education doesn’t start in schools or banks, it starts at home. And it’s never too early (or too late) to start.

Here are simple ways to raise money-wise kids:

1. Be their first example. Kids copy what they see, not what they’re told. If you budget, save, and talk openly about money, they’ll follow your lead. But if they always see you stressed or impulsive with spending, they’ll learn that, too.

2. Give them hands-on experience. Don’t just lecture. Let them handle small amounts of money. For young children, use three jars labeled Save, Spend, Give. This teaches balance: how to enjoy, plan, and share.

3. Let them make mistakes early. It’s better for a child to waste P100 now and learn, than waste P100,000 later and regret. Use small lessons to build big wisdom.

4. Talk about value, not just price. Teach them that cheap isn’t always better, and expensive isn’t always best. The goal is not to be “kuripot,” but to be wise.

5. Connect money to purpose. Ask them, “Why do we earn?” Show them that money is a tool for building dreams, helping others, and creating freedom, not just buying things.

Money education at home creates emotionally strong, financially stable adults. Because money problems rarely come from ignorance, they come from silence.

When you talk about money regularly, your children won’t grow up afraid or ashamed of it. They’ll understand it, respect it, and manage it with confidence.

Don’t wait until they’re working adults to teach them how to handle money. By then, it might be too late. Start now, one small lesson, one conversation at a time.

Because whether you like it or not, someone will shape your child’s money mindset.

It’s better if it’s you.