New Year in the Philippines is no longer the same. I say that now with a quiet sigh, not out of anger and not out of regret, but from that soft ache that comes when you suddenly realize time has been moving forward all along… and it never stopped to ask if you were ready.
When I was young, New Year meant home. And home meant our family house in Laoag City, Ilocos Norte, proudly standing beside the national highway like it was the heart of every celebration. It wasn’t just a house; it was headquarters, reunion venue, battlefield, theater stage, and comedy bar all at once. Back then, the highway wasn’t just a road. It was where life happened. It was where joy roared loudly and fear and laughter danced together in the same moment.
People arrived not just physically, but emotionally. Relatives, neighbors, cousins who vanished all year then magically appeared in December, titas with never-ending health reminders, titos armed with brandy and questionable wisdom, and grandparents quietly smiling like guardians of the chaos—everyone showed up completely alive. Plates clinked, conversations collided, and laughter flooded the night long before midnight. As the countdown grew closer, even the air felt excited, as if the whole world was taking a breath with us.
Fireworks were never just fireworks. They were declarations that we were here, we were together, and we were alive.
But nothing defined those New Years better than the legendary kwitis. There was always that one “genius,” trusted to grill barbecue but somehow always ending up in charge of explosives. Instead of planting the kwitis upright, he’d treat the road like an airport runway and light it like destiny itself needed entertainment. And the kwitis, designed by science to go UP, would instead shoot forward like a missile with unresolved anger issues. Nobody had time to think—you just ran. Kids sprinted. Adults forgot pride. Grandparents miraculously healed knee pain. Even the bravest titos turned into Olympic athletes within seconds.
And because Filipinos answer danger with humor, the family across the street would laugh, clap, and fire their own kwitis back. Suddenly the highway looked less like New Year and more like a joyful neighborhood war. It was ridiculous. It was dangerous. It was unforgettable. It was life at full volume.
Then there were the fountains—those “safe” fireworks parents trusted. They would proudly spit colors, golden sparks like falling stars and red bursts like tiny flaming flowers. Everyone admired them like they were tiny miracles. Then, out of nowhere, a speeding car would rush down the road and completely run them over, instantly ending the magic. And, united like a choir, everyone would shout the patriotic cry: “AY SAYANG!”
The chaos didn’t end there. Inside that car? Of course someone was halfway out the window, proudly firing a Roman candle while the vehicle was moving, like a low-budget action star without fear or insurance consciousness. Only in the Philippines can something so stupid, dangerous, hilarious, and exciting exist in one memory.
Inside the house was a different battlefield: the videoke. This was not just singing; this was commitment. This was emotional therapy. This was WrestleMania with microphones. People didn’t politely wait for their turn; they negotiated their song rights like lawyers. When negotiations failed, it sometimes turned into a light wrestling match over the mic—powered by gin, lechon fat, and very intense feelings.
The songs were always iconic. “Laklak” would thunder through the house with unmatched emotional drama. “My Way” would be sung like a threat, a declaration, and an emotional confession all at the same time. The microphone? It smelled like history. It was soaked in gin breath, baptized in kaldereta oil, and seasoned with the saliva and sorrow of every Tito who believed he deserved a record deal. And this wasn’t a one-night performance. This concert ran from 31 December until 2 January like a government-funded cultural program with no budget but unlimited heart.
I’ll admit: I hated it before. It was loud. It was chaotic. It was too much of everything.
But now, I realize it was beautiful… in a very messy, Filipino, unforgettable way.
Eventually, life changed. People grew older. Responsibilities arrived and refused to leave. Some relatives stopped traveling. Some chairs stopped being temporarily empty and became permanently so. Laughter still existed, but it didn’t roar the way it used to. The highway that once felt magical slowly returned to being just a road.
We eventually left that beloved house. The noise faded. The chaos dissolved. Our new home became calmer. More peaceful. More grown-up. But peace sometimes comes with loneliness. Silence wasn’t empty—it was filled with memories.
Life didn’t ask me what I wanted either. I had to grow up. I had to work. I had to live. Journalism became my calling. So instead of chasing fireworks, I chased stories. Instead of waiting for countdowns, I waited for deadlines. New Year slowly became less about celebration and more about reflection. Yet every year, my heart still listens for the old noise.
Today, New Year is quieter. Maybe fireworks cost more. Maybe we finally care more about safety, animals, and the environment. Or maybe… we simply grew up.
But those chaotic New Years left something priceless. They taught us resilience. They taught us to adapt. They taught us that life does not always go upward like a perfect firework. Sometimes, like a stubborn kwitis, it shoots sideways, shocks you, scares you, forces you to run… and then makes you laugh about it later.
New Year in the Philippines may no longer be the same. The skies are calmer. The roads are quieter. The videoke no longer feels like a wrestling match. But the memories remain. The laughter remains. The lessons remain. The love remains.
And maybe that is what truly matters.
Because even if the fireworks are quieter now, life still surprises us. It still twists. It still startles us like a sudden Roman candle from a moving car. And just like before, we keep going—with humor, with heart, with courage, with memory…
…and always, with hope.