So many Christmas songs, old and new, fill the air every December. We hear them in malls, on radios, in our homes, and even while stuck in traffic. There is “Last Christmas” by Wham, “It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas” popularized again by Michael Bublé and of course “All I Want for Christmas Is You” by Mariah Carey. But last week, one song stopped me in my tracks: “It’s the Most Wonderful Time of the Year” by Andy Williams.
It made me pause and ask: Why is this season truly the most wonderful time of the year?
I began reflecting on the Philippine setting. We are a people who live by seasons. We have fiestas that stretch for days, filled with food, music and color. We have Holy Week and the solemn season of Lent, a time for reflection, sacrifice and silence.
There is summer, when school is out and families return to beaches and provinces. There is February, the so-called season of love. All of these bring joy in their own ways. Yet none of them quite hold the same warmth, depth and quiet magic that Christmas does.
Perhaps the difference lies not in celebration, but in generosity.
Christmas has a way of softening hearts. It gently invites us to look beyond ourselves. I see it when a mother quietly adds an extra plate on the table for an unexpected guest. I see it when someone prepares small gift that is simple and thoughtfully wrapped, not because they are expensive, but because they were chosen with care. I see it when strangers become neighbors, when people give not out of excess, but out of love.
Just last Christmas, I witnessed a woman break down in tears after winning our Hakhak Grocery Challenge for her sari-sari store. She spoke not of profits or added capital, but of how she now had more to give this Christmas to her family, her neighbors, her community. It was generosity in its purest form. Another friend chose to spend Christmas Day not at a resort, but serving meals and giving skatebaords to children in the community. These moments rarely make headlines, but they are the true stories of the season.
Christmas joy feels different because it is shared. It is not loud happiness; it is steady, reassuring and deeply human. It reminds us that generosity does not always come wrapped in ribbons. Sometimes, it comes in time given, forgiveness offered or simply showing up.
The Bible captures this truth beautifully: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35) This verse rings especially true during Christmas, when giving becomes less of an obligation and more of a natural response to love.
As the year winds down, Christmas teaches us what no other season quite does, that joy multiplies when it is given away. And perhaps that is why, despite the noise and the rush, we keep returning to this truth year after year.
It is, indeed, the most wonderful time of the year, not because of the songs, the lights, or the gifts, but because, for a brief moment, generosity becomes our common language.