OPINION

Parallelisms: The Pinoy and Portuguese psyche

To this day, I remember every detail of that experience; it was serendipity, an ‘accidental’ adventure on the road.

Bernie V. Lopez

(Author’s note. This is rewritten from my book, Wings and Wanderlust, the Art of Discovering Yourself.)

It was early spring. I hitchhiked from Spain to a quaint border village in Portugal, Vila Franca de Xira. It was early evening, rush hour for drinkers. The first thing I encountered was a noisy bar. Everyone was screaming drunk, all men, not a single woman around.

As soon as I entered, there was a sudden five seconds of eerie silence as they all stared at me in disbelief. I was wearing a dirty canary-yellow ski jacket with many repair stitches, hair to my shoulders, a backpack, and a guitar — a weird-looking 26-year-old Filipino. After five seconds, they screamed and dragged me to the bar to sing a song.

Even though it was April, I chose a short easy song, “Ang Pasko ay Sumapit” (Christmas is Here), a bouncy, happy native song with simple chords, Am-Dm-E7. After the song, everybody screamed once more. Somehow, I had triggered their adrenaline. Remember, everyone was violently drunk. A huge mug of beer slid across the bar and screeched to a stop within six inches of my nose, courtesy of the bartender, who winked at me. Next came a sandwich.

Someone grabbed the guitar and they started playing native folk songs while I drank and ate ravenously. After hitchhiking the whole day from Cadiz in Spain, I was tired and hungry. After just three mugs of beer, I was as drunk as everybody. I wish I was able to record their quaint Portuguese folk songs.

Someone asked where I was going to sleep that night. I said I didn’t know and everybody laughed. A guy offered to let me sleep at his place. I said okay. But another guy said I should sleep at his place. I did not know what to say. A quarrel ensued. The two guys started a brawl. Everybody was cheering the two guys. I felt so good that they were fighting over me. But then again, I felt bad because of the brawl that I somehow triggered.

At a certain point, I winked at the bartender, and sneaked out with my guitar and backpack unnoticed, because everyone was watching the boxing match. The Portuguese are as warm as Filipinos — drunk, noisy and violent.

I ended up in a nearby park — from pandemonium to sacred silence. I was ready for the cool spring night. I had an expensive sleeping bag which could withstand open-air snow.

I could not sleep because of the awesome experience of meeting such warm Portuguese folks, my first encounter. My adrenaline was up. Good thing I was drunk and finally fell asleep under the stars.

On the road, I had such bizarre encounters. They became a permanent part of a soul hungry for adventure. The guitar was magical. At times, I was worried because I had such an attraction for danger. At times, I was looking for it, just to spice things up. I realized how similar the Pinoy and the Portuguese were — boisterous, spontaneous, warm, devil-may-care.

To this day, I remember every detail of that experience; it was serendipity, an “accidental” adventure on the road. Serendipity shadowed me at every turn of my three years on the road, hitchhiking through Western Europe and North Africa, which I called eastwind — the wind from the east.

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