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‘Landi responsibly’: Gen Z slang relationship terms

Pauline Joyce Pascual

Happy Valentine’s Day to everyone, whether you’re in a relationship, it’s complicated, or single not ready to mingle . This year if you want to elevate your “status” to the next level might as well learn the new terms of Gen Z way of “landi.” And let’s be real — these words don’t always mean what they sound like. For example, No cap (which, by the way, means “no lie”), Gen Z has redefined relationships with a whole new dictionary.

Situationship

That awkward in-between stage where you’re more than friends but not officially dating. No labels, no expectations.

Friendzone

The dreaded zone no one wants to be in. This happens when one person catches feelings, but the other just wants to stay friends. Ouch.

Ghosting

When someone disappears from your life without explanation—no texts, no calls, no closure. One day they’re there, the next? Boogsh.

Slide into my DMs

The modern way of shooting your shot. This means sending a flirty message to someone on social media, hoping for a connection (or at least a reply).

Breadcrumbing

When someone keeps you on the hook with occasional flirty texts but never actually makes a move. They give just enough attention to keep you interested but aren’t serious.

Catfishing

When someone creates a fake online persona to trick another person into a relationship. We’re talking stolen pics, fake names — total deception.

Friends With Benefits (FWB)

When two friends take things to the next level physically but keep things casual. No commitment, just fun.

Benching

Keeping someone on the sidelines as a backup option while exploring other romantic interests. Like sports, but way less fun for the person being benched.

Now, go forth and landi responsibly!