
Father’s Day is often a celebration of steady, lifelong bonds — but for some, it’s a day that stirs deeper reflection: of longing, of discovery, and of healing. For actresses Julia Montes and Lotlot de Leon, the journey toward finding their biological fathers became personal milestones — testaments to the power of faith, persistence, and love that transcends time and distance.
Julia Montes: A daughter’s
silent answered prayer
For acclaimed actress Julia Montes, growing up with questions about her identity was an unspoken part of life. Raised by her mother and grandmother, she never knew her German father — only his name and a few old photographs. Despite her fame, the longing remained.
In a revealing interview with Karen Davila, Julia opened up about her emotional journey — one that would unexpectedly intersect with her fans. “It was a member of the CocoJul fandom who reached out,” Julia recalled. The fan, named Ate Tina, had stumbled upon someone in Germany who might be connected to Julia’s paternal side.
Before following the lead, Julia sought divine guidance. She visited Quiapo Church, offered a quiet prayer, and left her phone behind. When she returned, it was flooded with messages and photos — images that mirrored her childhood memories.
“There was something I felt instantly. ‘Lukso ng dugo’ Talaga (a sudden feeling of connection), ” she shared.
The man in the photos was Martin Schnittka, her father. That Christmas, Martin flew to the Philippines, and Julia finally met the man she had spent years searching for. It was a reunion marked by tears, laughter, and overdue embraces.
“Gentle giant ‘yung tawag ko sa kanya (Is what I called him),” Julia said with a smile. “Iyakan kami nang iyakan. Parang binuhusan ako ng malamig na tubig nung una ko siyang makita ( I was in tears. It was a relief).”
Their relationship continues to blossom, with Martin visiting regularly. While Julia admits to still adjusting, she cherishes the simple, newfound joy of having a father figure present in her life.
“Hindi pa ako sanay. Pero ang sarap ng pakiramdam na mayroong nag-aalaga sa’yo bilang anak (I am soo happy to have someone looking after me as a child),” she said. Her story is one of patient hope rewarded, of broken lines mended by time and grace.
Lotlot de Leon:
Rediscovering her roots and reclaiming her name
For Lotlot de Leon, being adopted by showbiz royalty — Nora Aunor and Christopher de Leon — brought both love and a public spotlight. Yet, even as she lived a life many would envy, questions about her origins remained.
She first learned of her adoption not through a family revelation, but through whispers from people around her. “I knew I was adopted at a young age,” she recalled in a heartfelt Instagram post. “But it was my Mom who lovingly explained it — she said Ian came from her tummy, and I was a gift from above.”
That explanation stayed with her. She held no bitterness — only curiosity. Over the years, that curiosity evolved into a quiet wish: to meet her biological parents, to see the faces behind her name.
Fate intervened during a routine trip to Olongapo, her birthplace. A municipal employee, recognizing her, casually said, “Lot, nung baby ka, sa amin ka nakatira (You lived with us).”
Intrigued, she began piecing clues together — her birth name, her biological mother’s name (Eva Rodriguez), and the surname of her American father.
With help, she found an email address belonging to a man named Donald Olson. Taking a leap of faith, she wrote:
“Hi Mr. Olson, my name is Lot de Leon. My biological mom’s name is Eva Rodriguez… are you my father?”
The reply came swiftly and tenderly.
“Yes, I know who you are. I’ve always known about you. I carried you in my arms when you were born.”
Lotlot was stunned. “My jaw dropped. That was the moment. The rest is history,” she said.
Their reconnection brought not only a father into her life but a sense of peace and clarity that years of wondering couldn’t provide.
“Each of us has a story. Mine is filled with grace. Forgiveness, humility, and prayer brought me here,” she reflected. “Looking at the glass half full — always.”
Reclaiming fathers,
redefining family
The stories of Julia Montes and Lotlot de Leon remind us that family is not always defined by permanence — but by connection, honesty, and the courage to seek answers. On this Father’s Day, their experiences shine a light on the many forms paternal love can take, even if it arrives later than expected.
Whether found through a fan’s message, a municipal record, or a quiet Christmas reunion, their fathers were always out there — waiting, hoping, loving from afar.
And in finding them, these daughters found a part of themselves.
Because sometimes, the most beautiful family stories are the ones that take the longest to write.