Valentine's Day, a celebration of love and affection, is inextricably linked to the figure of St. Valentine. But who was this man, and how did he become the patron saint of romance? The story of St. Valentine is shrouded in mystery, with several accounts offering different versions of his life and martyrdom.

While the exact details remain debated, most stories agree that St. Valentine was a Christian martyr during the reign of Emperor Claudius II Gothicus around 270 CE. Some accounts depict him as a Roman priest and physician, while others identify him as the bishop of Terni, Italy. Regardless of the specific details, both narratives place his martyrdom in Rome. Pope Julius I is said to have built a basilica over his grave on the Via Flaminia.

The question of St. Valentine's true identity is further complicated by the existence of multiple sets of relics attributed to him. Churches around the world lay claim to possess pieces of the saint, including his skull (displayed in a glass reliquary at the Basilica di Santa Maria in Cosmedin in Rome), a shoulder blade (housed at the Basilica of SS. Peter and Paul in Prague), and a vessel tinged with his blood (along with other artifacts at the Whitefriar Street Church in Dublin). Even a wax effigy containing relics can be found at Old St. Ferdinand Shrine in Florissant, Missouri. It's possible that these differing accounts and relics represent variations on a single original story, or perhaps even refer to multiple individuals named Valentine.

Beyond historical records, legend plays a significant role in shaping our understanding of St. Valentine. One popular tale recounts how he befriended and healed the blind daughter of his jailer. Before his execution, he is said to have signed a letter to her, "From your Valentine," a phrase that echoes through centuries of romantic correspondence. Another legend tells of his defiance of the emperor's orders. Claudius II had decreed that young men should not be married, believing that single men made better soldiers. St. Valentine, however, secretly married couples, thus protecting husbands from being forced into military service. This act of defiance, performed in the name of love, solidified his association with romance.

While the true story of St. Valentine may remain elusive, his legacy as a symbol of love and sacrifice endures. Whether he was a priest, bishop, or simply a man who believed in love, St. Valentine's name continues to be invoked on February 14th, a day dedicated to celebrating love in all its forms.